Want to love yourself? Want to raise your vibrations? Want to attract loving people and experiences into your life?
Loving yourself is primary. Everything else you could ever want comes as a side-effect.
People are constantly telling me: “How are you so calm all the time? I need your energy like yours!” I even heard this when I was in the hospital with a broken arm (without painkillers). I wasn’t always like this, though. I used to be the most anxious guy in every room I walked into. I was always sweating and fidgeting. I was always walking around angry at the world and stressed about everything. I was irritable, impatient, easily frustrated, and had a lot of trauma I was holding onto (and avoiding).
In addition to my coaching framework, I guide others on their path to Self-realization with various meditation practices, breathing exercises, and self-reflection exercises. The flame of our presence burns a great heap of inner suffering and trauma, allowing ourselves to heal and be refreshed, rejuvenated, and effervescent. By becoming more present and raising our vibrations, we align ourselves with peace, which brings us to the ultimate realization of life: we are Love.
By realizing who we are at our very core (Love), we can learn to love ourselves. Loving ourselves means healing ourselves from within with the warm flame of our presence. Our presence allows us to be Love—yes, be Love. Being present allows us to raise our vibrations. And by raising our vibrations, we allow ourselves to resonate with peace, Love, and Truth, attracting loving people, animals, and experiences into our life. Basically, I guide people on their journey toward discovering the infinite Love within them and embodying it.
I guide people toward a mindful, compassionate, and forgiving relationship with their heart (“inner child”), helping them to raise their vibrations, become Love, live with peace, and create their dream life.
What Makes Me Different from the Average Therapist and Coach
I am here to help you get back to your most natural state: Love. I am not here to diagnose you with a psychological disorder because of an emotion that you feel. I am not going to tell you that you have a disease because no one taught you how to love yourself, nor am I going to get you hooked on some prescription pills to “cure” your not knowing of how to love yourself… I am here to help you learn how to love yourself. I am here to show you how to be Love. My goal is to get you to your goal (loving yourself) as soon as possible, but without rushing the process. (That’s why the free discovery call I offer is super important! It helps me to know where you are at, so that I can redirect you on your path toward Love. Sometimes you need to completely turn around; other times you simply need to make a slight adjustment.)
I am here to guide you toward presence, self-understanding, self-acceptance, and complete forgiveness (of yourself and others). I am here to help you be compassionate and patient and gentle with yourself. I am here to help you learn to love yourself. I am going to help you be Love for yourself and as a side-effect, you will be Love for everyone around you, and you will attract positive, loving people, animals, and experiences into your life. I’m here to help you with this; I sincerely believe it’s why I exist.
What Makes My Coaching Unique and Effective
My coaching method is based on one simple fact: Love is our true essence. Our most natural state is to be loving with ourselves and everyone around us. It is our most natural state to be Love.
Loving ourselves means going back to your most natural state: Love. Self-Love means realizing who you really are: Love. You are the Universe! You are not your emotions or your job or your friends or romantic partners (or lack thereof). You are Everything. You are Love. You deserve forgiveness and understanding and compassion. You deserve to be connected with the infinite Love that is waiting within you.
My coaching method is based on the fact that there is an infinite well of Love dwelling in your heart, waiting for your devotion and attention. I am here to help you get back to your most natural state. I am here to help you connect with that infinite well of Love. I am here to help you love yourself more than you thought was possible.
And what makes my coaching method unique and effective is how simple and natural it is. It doesn’t overcomplicate anything. It doesn’t pretend that you need 10-year goals or that you need to put yourself on a leash and call it “discipline.” It doesn’t pretend that self-love comes from success or hustling and working so hard that you forget about yourself. It should be the reverse. You should love yourself so much that you forget about any notion of “work.” When you realize and are connected with the Love flowing within you, “work” no longer exists. Instead, you are simply sharing your Love in the way that you are meant to.
And my coaching method doesn’t try to sell you something that’s only going to leave you needing more. My goal is to get you on your own so you can live life to the fullest. In fact, the sooner you stop needing my help, the better! You deserve to be free! You deserve to go from a place of needing help to love yourself, to having so much Love to give that you don’t even know what to do with it! You deserve to be overflowing with Love. That is what I will help you be.
I am here for you. I am here to devote myself to connecting you with the infinite—yes, infinite—source of Love within you. I am here to help you be Love for yourself. I am here to help you understand and forgive yourself. I am here to help you live here and now, so that you can make the most of your life, with Love. I am here to help you attract more positive and loving people, animals, and experiences—because that is what you deserve!
My coaching method is called Self-realization, because the ultimate goal is you realizing that you are infinite Love. You are realizing your Self, which is the infinite source of Love within you.
Sharing this wisdom through coaching is a gift that was given to me to help others. It is this same gift that helped me suddenly go from being depressed, anxious, angry, addicted to porn, and severely suicidal, to feeling deep inner peace, love, and radiant joy for life. It is this same gift from the Universe that helped me to get discharged from the psychiatric ward, despite being a 19-year-old without a plan who rejected all medication, counseling, and whatever the psychologists were trying to diagnose me with (I share this story in much greater detail in my book. Below, you can sign up for the weekly newsletter and receive a free PDF of it! Learn more about my book here.)
It is this same gift that helps me to coach people of all ages and genders—anyone who wants to love themselves—anyone interested in creating and living their best, most loving life, making the most of every moment with sincere gratitude, joy and Love.
So if you are interested in living with inner peace radiant joy, and being connected to the infinite well of Love within you, you can start by reading my book (for free!). Of course, I know that reading a book alone is not enough to completely turn someone’slife around, which is why I am always coaching people. Aside from reading my book, you can also sign up for a coaching session with me here (click here to start with a free discovery call). (I always offer financial aid to anyone who needs it—especially now).
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Read about the spiritual awakening I had in the neuropsychiatric hospital at 19 years-old, while a sophomore at UCLA. In my story, I share with you how I went from being a depressed, anxious, and suicidal teenager to a being Love: loving myself and sharing my Love with the world in the way that I am meant to.
When I was 19, while sitting the psychiatric ward—a depressed, anxious, and suicidal college sophomore—I had a spiritual awakening. Afterward, I went from failing my classes to graduating with a degree in economics, becoming a life coach, author, and transformational speaker. I help people around the world with turning inward so that they can find themselves, create their best life, and live with peace, Love, and purpose. I help people to discover and embody the infinite Love residing within them, waiting to be let out.
Everyone deserves to love themselves. Everyone deserves to be Love. Everyone deserves to connect with their true Self, realize their true essence, and return to their most natural state: Love.
Nothing fills me with more joy than helping others to transmute their pain and fear into peace, Love, freedom, and joy. It’s the best feeling in the world. I love seeing the lightbulb moment in the people I coach. Whether it’s that they reclaim their power over the inner voice beating them up, or they’re no longer feeling anxious around others, or they overcame a fear holding them back from being their most loving, most authentic self. I live for that. It’s why I get out of bed in the morning (that, and to use the bathroom!). Seriously, coaching gives me life! Sharing my gift with the world is what I was born to do.
“Brandon has helped me tremendously. He has been coaching me for a few months now and this past month has been the best month of my life. I feel like I was given a second chance. I know I have power over my life now, and suddenly I am doing everything out of Love!”
— Thomas S., age 30 (June 2022)
Rating: 5 out of 5.
“I’m thankful for Brandon and his thoughtful tough love. I really feel as if a good friend who’s got my interests in mind sat me down and unjudgmentally told me everything I needed to hear. He understands that honesty doesn’t need to be brutal.”
— Chloe C., age 19
Rating: 5 out of 5.
“Brandon is the only person in my life I can really open up to and he’s really helped me to discover and learn to love myself. His coaching is the best part of my week and probably the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”
— Anne Michelle, age 24
Rating: 5 out of 5.
“Brandon helped me to understand what it means to love myself. I feel like I can tell him anything and he genuinely listens, cares, and makes me feel like I can trust him more than anyone. I found him at the perfect time in my life.”
— Talia G., age 26
Rating: 5 out of 5.
“In a moment of frustration I found Brandon and speaking with him was a huge eureka moment. From someone who was never taught structure, and has been wondering why I just can’t seem to sit down and do shit when it needs to be done, he made my self-sabotage so clear and easy to fix. Love it!”
— Candice Neil, age 20
Rating: 5 out of 5.
“Brandon helped me understand loving myself at a completely new level. I never knew I could have such a relationship with myself. He’s like my coach and therapist all in one.”