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Realize My Self
Live a Life of Peace, Love, and Purpose
Your Happiness is Overdue; It’s Time to Love Yourself. Create Your Life of Peace, Love, and Purpose Today
“Loving yourself is primary. Everything else your soul desires comes as a side-effect. Yes: Everything!”
Peace
I used to be the most anxious guy in every room I walked into. I was always sweating and fidgeting. I was always walking around angry at the world and stressed about everything. I was irritable, impatient, easily frustrated, and had a lot of trauma I was holding onto (and avoiding). That was, until I found the peace within me and I was able to heal myself. Peace exists within you as well, you just need someone to guide you to it, that’s all.
With your trust, I can guide you to the sacred abode of peace within you and show you how to connect with it wherever you go, regardless of what is going on around you. I can guide you to inner peace and healing and show you how you can live with peace and stillness wherever you go (without my help!)
Love
By realizing who we are at our very core (Love), we can learn to love ourselves. Loving ourselves means accepting ourselves exactly as we are. Loving ourselves means respecting our boundaries and our body. Loving ourselves means forgiving ourselves, showing ourselves that we are worthy of unconditional Love. Loving ourselves means prioritizing our Joy, Freedom, and Creative Self-Expression, whether that’s as an artist, CEO, a mother of four, and so on—whoever you desire to be!
It is only by loving ourselves that we can heal ourselves. We do so from within with the warm flame of our presence. Our presence allows us to be Love—yes, be Love. Being present allows us to raise our vibrations. And by raising our vibrations, we allow ourselves to resonate with peace, Love, and Truth, helping us to see with clarity and to listen to what our emotions and what are our pain are trying to tell us.
Let me guide you on on your journey inward, toward discovering and embodying the infinite Love within you, so that you can truly Love yourself and be at peace. And it is only when we love ourselves and are at peace that we can truly begin to create and live our best life.
What Makes Me Different from the Average Therapist and Coach
I am here to help you get back to your most natural state: Love. I don’t believe in medication and my goal is to get the least amount of money out of you as possible. My goal is to get you to know, feel, and embody your worth as soon as possible. My goal is to help you realize, as soon as possible: “I don’t need anyone in order to feel Love or Joy, or to know that I am worthy of Love and compassion. I don’t need anyone to show me or guide me anymore, either. I can take it from here.” If you want to feel this way, know that I can guide you there. All I need is your willingness and courage to turn inward and embrace and heal fear, pain, and uncomfortable emotions. All I need is your yearning to feel peace and Love with your aloneness—your yearning to feel whole on your own.
I am here to guide you back to your Self (your most loving, devoted, creative Self). I’m going to help you (re)learn how to love yourself (because it’s as simple as this: you forgot. You’ve been taught to repress yourself and to reject yourself and to “change yourself.” You are already perfect and deserving of Love and compassion; you simply forgot. I’m here to help you remember). After my guidance, you won’t need me anymore—in fact, you’ll realize that you don’t need anyone or anything in order to feel Love and peace. My goal is for you to not need me as soon as possible. I want you to be free and Love yourself so that you can be sharing your Love through what you create, and showing others how to do the same—not with your words, but with your very way of life.
I am here to show you how to be Love. My goal is to get you to your goal (loving yourself) as soon as possible, but without rushing the process. (That’s why the free discovery call I offer is super important! It helps me to know where you are at, so that I can redirect you on your path toward Love. Sometimes you need to completely turn around; other times you simply need to make a slight adjustment.)
I am here to guide you toward peace, presence, Self-understanding, Self-acceptance, Self-respect, Self-autonomy, and total Self-forgiveness (no matter what you did or what happened to you—you deserve unconditional Love and forgiveness, and I am here to guide you to that). I am here to help you be compassionate and patient and gentle with yourself. I am here to help you learn to love and nurture yourself. I am going to help you be Love for yourself and as a side-effect, you will be Love for everyone around you, and you will attract positive, loving people, animals, and experiences into your life. You will also be creating your best life (everything you desire), everything your soul yearns for—all as a side-effect! This is how you will measure your progress: when your life changes from a nightmare to your grandest dream.
I’m here to guide you back to Love; I sincerely believe it’s why I exist. I am here to guide you back to a place called Home (it’s where the heart is).
My Self-Realization
Being able to guide others back to Love is a gift that was given to me. It is this same gift that helped me overcome my depression, anxiety, anger, addiction, and suicidal ideation. This God-given gift helped me find my inner abode of peace, and the infinite well of Love within me. It helped me to love myself and forgive myself. It helped me to respect myself and accept myself exactly as I am. (You can read more about my story in my two-part self-help book. Learn more about my book here.)
It is this same gift that helps me to coach and speak to people of all ages and genders around the world—anyone who wants to love themselves, accept themselves, and be at peace with themselves—anyone interested in creating and living their best life, making the most of every moment with Love. Let me share this gift with you.
Read about the spiritual awakening (shift in consciousness) I experienced in the neuropsychiatric hospital at 19 years-old, while a sophomore at UCLA. In my story, I share with you how I went from being a depressed, anxious, and suicidal teenager to loving myself and sharing my Love with the world through what I create and the people I guide.
My Purpose
This is what my soul yearns for. This is everything I’ve ever prayed for. I guide people on their journey inward so that they can find themselves, create their best life, and live with peace, Love, and purpose. I help people to discover and embody the infinite creative Love residing within them, just waiting to be discovered and released.
“Brandon has helped me tremendously. He has been coaching me for a few months now and this past month has been the best month of my life. I feel like I was given a second chance. I know I have power over my life now, and suddenly I am doing everything out of love!”
— Thomas S., age 30 (June 2022)
“I’m thankful for Brandon and his thoughtful tough love. I really feel as if a good friend who’s got my interests in mind sat me down and unjudgmentally told me everything I needed to hear. He understands that honesty doesn’t need to be brutal.”
— Chloe C., age 19
“Brandon is the only person in my life I can really open up to and he’s really helped me to discover and learn to love myself. His coaching is the best part of my week and probably the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”
— Anne Michelle, age 24
“Brandon helped me to understand what it means to love myself. I feel like I can tell him anything and he genuinely listens, cares, and makes me feel like I can trust him more than anyone. I found him at the perfect time in my life.”
— Talia G., age 26
“In a moment of frustration I found Brandon and speaking with him was a huge eureka moment. From someone who was never taught structure, and has been wondering why I just can’t seem to sit down and do shit when it needs to be done, he made my self-sabotage so clear and easy to fix. Love it!”
— Candice Neil, age 29
“Brandon helped me understand loving myself at a completely new level. I never knew I could have such a relationship with myself. He’s like my coach and therapist all in one.”
— Sarah F., age 22
